The Art of Accessorizing (Ft. @brotherwiththebeard)
This week's issue of Unbuttoned, with the help of Kevin Montes (@brotherwiththebeard) dives into how accessorizing correctly can truly elevate any outfit.
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TLDR
Meet Kevin Montes, the distinctive fashion influencer known as @brotherwiththebeard. His style blends Puerto Rican heritage, New York upbringing, and unique brand choices. Accessories like watches and jewelry aren't just adornments; they're statements that add elegance and personality. Uniqueness shines both visually and in the stories behind pieces. Mixing metals and personal preferences trump old rules. Quality metals like gold and 925 sterling silver endure. Kevin's advice balances comfort and confidence. His collection spans local jewelers to thrift shop finds. Developing personal style means self-understanding, experimenting, and staying authentic. Kevin's NYC roots influence his choices, inspiring others to embrace their backgrounds. Advice for newcomers: Let style reflect interests and stay true to yourself.
Foreword
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If you are an active participant in the fashion spaces of social media, today's guest writer needs no introduction. Kevin Montes, recognized by his Instagram handle @brotherwiththebeard, is a prominent figure who injects a unique flair into the world of fashion. His style is a vibrant fusion of his Puerto Rican heritage, his upbringing in the bustling streets of New York, and his genuine appreciation for lesser-known brands and archival Japanese garments.
Personally, I have been constantly inspired by Kevin's advice and specifically, his uniqueness when it comes to accessorizing. His ability to curate looks that are both individualistic and timeless is truly remarkable. Therefore, it was an absolute delight to have the opportunity to interview him and gain deeper insights into his approach to style and accessorizing. This conversation was dope, shedding light on the nuances of fashion that many of us aspire to understand and master. Let's delve into the captivating art of accessorizing through the lens of Kevin.
If you find Kevin’s outfits and tips as unique as I do, make sure to follow his social media accounts for more style inspiration:
Kevin’s Tiktok
Kevin’s Instagram
Style Guide: The basics of accessorizing
Before we get into Kevin’s thoughts, I wanted to outline some basic guidelines and principles for accessorizing. Accessories are the secret sauce that can transform an outfit from mundane to exciting. To better understand how to think about them, let's break down some of the main groups. (I will give some recommendations at the end of the article)
Watches: Wristwatches often go unnoticed in the era of smartphones, but they are more than time-telling tools – they're statements. A well-chosen watch combines functionality, style, and uniqueness, expressing elegance or boldness. Uniqueness is a recurring theme, visually and in the stories behind jewelry and watches. These narratives add sentimental value, enriching your personal connection to them. Accessories aren't just surface-level; they harmonize within outfits, enhancing the overall impact. Each accessory embodies uniqueness, both visually and emotionally.
Jewelry: Selecting a jewelry theme is a pathway to self-expression. For instance, I tend to gravitate toward silver jewelry, while Kevin's signature style is rooted in gold. These choices are completely personal and speak volumes about our individual aesthetics. Traditionally, there was a notion against mixing metals, but today, those old rules are irrelevant. The beauty of personal style lies in making choices that resonate with you.
Quality is paramount when it comes to metals that endure. While gold may be a pricier option, 925 sterling silver presents an accessible entry point into jewelry, especially when opting for secondhand pieces. The enduring nature of these metals ensures that your investment withstands the test of time, celebrating not only your style but also the lasting value of your choices.
The right necklace, ring, or bracelet can add a touch of luxury to even the simplest ensemble.
Eyewear: glasses aren’t just for vision correction; it's an opportunity to showcase your personality. Again, uniqueness in frame/color goes a long way with eyewear. Whether you opt for classic frames or bold styles, glasses can be a conscious choice to completely alter the direction of an outfit. Kevin does this really well by sticking to mainly square-shaped bolder glasses but also constantly changing the color combinations from his collection that can be paired with multiple outfits:
Now that we have a better understanding of how outfits can be elevated through accessorizing, let’s dive into some of Kevin’s thoughts, advice, and inspirations.
A Conversation with Kevin on personal style
Q: What role do accessories play in your outfits? How do they contribute to the overall look?
Accessories hold a paramount role in my outfits – they're a personal style essential. Gold jewelry is a constant presence, adding a touch of elegance to even the most understated or casual ensembles. It's that final flourish that transforms a simple look into something remarkable.
When it comes to footwear, I gravitate towards hard-bottom shoes. They seamlessly complement my overall aesthetic, particularly as it revolves around trousers, creating a cohesive and polished appearance.
Q: How can the right accessories elevate a seemingly simple outfit?
The right accessories possess the remarkable ability to elevate a seemingly simple outfit by adding a layer of depth, personality, and style. Accessories, whether it's jewelry, scarves, belts, or even a well-chosen bag, serve as focal points that draw attention and create visual interest. They have the power to transform a basic outfit into something distinctive and memorable.
Q: Can you share your thought process when deciding which accessories to incorporate into an outfit?
Gold jewelry is an absolute essential in every outfit I put together. It's become a cornerstone of my personal style that I've held onto consistently. While other elements like bags and scarves might be last-minute decisions, gold jewelry is a no-brainer for me. It effortlessly complements any look I create, serving as an ever-present and indispensable part of my ensembles.
Q: How do you balance different accessories to create a harmonious and unique look?
Comfort is key when it comes to personal style! Two chains and a handful of rings might feel overwhelming for some, and that's perfectly fine. Discovering what aligns with your comfort level is the secret sauce. Your unique formula for style success stems from finding what resonates with you and makes you feel confident.
Sourcing accessories: from thrifting to retail
Q: You have an impressive collection of accessories. Where do you usually find these pieces? Do you have any thrifting tips for finding hidden gems?
My collection of vintage gold is curated through connections with various jewelers across NYC. I often suggest that people explore their local jewelers or even pawnshops – you'd be amazed by the hidden treasures waiting to be discovered.
Q: Are there specific retail places or online platforms you recommend for unique accessories?
Oro Latino in NYC on 82nd Bowery is a favorite of mine!
Developing personal style: steps to timeless and curated looks
Q: How would you advise someone looking to develop their own personal style? Are there any key principles or guidelines you follow?
Know Yourself: Understand your personality and what boosts your confidence. Your style reflects who you are.
Explore and Experiment: Try new things. Test colors, patterns, and styles to find your unique look.
Find Inspiration: Look at magazines, social media, and celebs. Notice what you like. Build a Base: Start with versatile pieces you can mix and match, like good-fitting jeans and classic shirts.
Comfort is Key: Prioritize comfy choices. If you feel good, you'll look confident. Quality Over Quantity: Invest in lasting pieces. Fewer high-quality items beat lots of fast fashion.
Accessorize Smartly: Accessories transform outfits. Pick ones that match your style and add personality.
Be Authentic: Trends are fun, but stay true to yourself. Stick to what feels real.
Fit Matters: Clothes must fit well. Even simple outfits shine with the right fit.
Balance and Harmony: Mix different elements well – sizes, textures. This creates a good look.
Style Changes: Your style evolves with you. Be open to change as you grow. Confidence Rules: Wear what boosts confidence. You're your best accessory.
Q: Could you talk about the importance of investing in timeless garments that stand the test of trends?
A strong wardrobe includes timeless pieces. While trends are fun, think about whether a piece will last more than a year. If not, it's probably a short-lived trend that won't age gracefully.
Overcoming societal hesitations: men and jewelry
Q: Some men might hesitate to wear jewelry due to societal norms. What advice would you offer to those who want to explore accessories but feel uncertain?
Some of the baddest mfs on the planet wear jewelry! Start off small and build your confidence before you go all in.
Influences of background and location on style
Q: Your style is heavily influenced by your Puerto Rican roots and New York upbringing. How do these influences manifest in your fashion choices?
Absolutely, every single day! Let's talk about jewelry, for instance. It's this big, vibrant slice of Puerto Rican culture that's woven into my life. Many of the pieces I wear are reminiscent of what I saw on fellow Puerto Ricans while growing up in the Bronx. You know, New York is this endless runway of fashion ideas for me. You could just step into a corner store, and bam, there's this incredible ensemble that sparks your imagination. My passion for shoes, the way I pick my shirts, and my choice of jewelry, it all springs from these sparks of inspiration I've soaked in from the buzzing streets of New York City.
Guidance for Aspiring Fashion Enthusiasts
Q: For those looking to enter the fashion world and refine their style, what general advice would you give?
Your style should effortlessly reflect your interests—what films resonate with you, the melodies that move you, the places that shape
Personal recommendations for sourcing jewelry
Potential sources and tips:
Ebay is the perfect place to buy jewelry (especially secondhand) for a relatively good price. Things to keep in mind:
Seller Reputation: Check the seller's rating and reviews. Trusted sellers often have positive feedback from previous buyers.
Detailed Descriptions: Read item descriptions thoroughly. Look for information about materials, conditions, and any potential flaws.
Offers: Ebay is unique in the sense that you can effectively barter for your items; use this to your advantage.
Auctions: Participate in auctions strategically. Set a maximum bid to avoid overspending in the heat of the moment.
Etsy
Etsy is a extremely underrated place to buy jewelry that is handcrafted and unique. It is a safe platform that allows small artists to sell their work worldwide. Things to keep in mind:
Search Filters: Use Etsy's search filters to narrow down options by price, materials, and vintage/antique categories.
Shop Reviews: Check the shop's reviews and ratings. Reputable sellers often have satisfied customers.
Customization: Some Etsy sellers offer custom jewelry. You can collaborate with them to create a unique piece.
Communication: Don't hesitate to message sellers for more information or additional photos before making a purchase.
Antique Stores are one of the
Research: Familiarize yourself with the types of jewelry popular during the era you're interested in. This knowledge will help you spot authentic pieces.
Ask Questions: Inquire about the jewelry's history and provenance. Antique dealers often have valuable information about their inventory.
Negotiate: Don't be afraid to negotiate the price. Antique stores sometimes have room for flexibility.
Hallmarks and Signatures: Look for hallmarks, signatures, or maker's marks on jewelry. These can provide clues about authenticity and age.
Your relatives. This one is self-explanatory but definitely overlooked.
Grandparents usually love passing down jewelry and oftentimes the items have been heirlooms that have stayed within families for years (please don’t sell these)
Think old engagement/ wedding bands, college rings, and jewelry related to religion.
Conclusion
That's a wrap for this issue, and I'd like to extend a massive thank you to Kevin for his participation in this interview. To explore more of his fashion expertise, don't forget to follow him on his social media channels!
From watches to jewelry and eyewear, He has shown us that accessories aren't just adornments; they are statements with stories. These narratives add depth and sentiment to our outfits, transcending aesthetics.
Kevin’s advice on personal style development, emphasizing authenticity and quality, resonates with anyone looking to refine their fashion journey.
Whether you seek to revamp your style or dive into a specific core, let accessories be a salient aspect of your outfits. With the right accessories and confidence, you can transform your look, one piece at a time.
What I have picked up recently
This beautiful vintage french chore coat that I ended up mending. Some before and afters:
If you made it all the way down here, thank you. Tune in for more cool stuff.
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So inspiring. My style has changed through the years and I def used to accessorize more. I'm inspired by this interview and newsletter to start!
fantastic insight!